The Flying Spaghetti Monster (FSM) is the deity of the Church of the Flying Spaghetti Monster . When scientific measurements such as radiocarbon dating are taken, the Flying Spaghetti Monster "is there changing the results with His Noodly. FSM = female seeking male. FSF = female seeking female. MSM = male seeking male. Currently there are no other variations on the site. abreviations Free Dating, Singles and Personals. The FSM is part of the Carolinian Islands group and has a rich history dating back several thousand years. The islands were originally settled by ancient people.