Doesn ' t he realize kissing is a glorious, extremely pleasure-filled part of sex? Kissing is a soul-connection (when it's good, that is) for me and. However, at the end of it, he always just goes in for a hug. He doesn ' t even linger as if he may want to kiss me but is too nervous we just hug. So I've been going out with my boyfriend for like a week now and he still hasn' t even TRIED to kiss me. I don' t get it at all and I'm so not used to feeling like this. "Ariel - He Didn't Kiss Me " by DreamyArtistRoxy3 you really aren't attracted to your date and you pray that he doesn ' t try to lay one on you. Besides the millions of microorganisms that are being swapped around from lip- locking, there are other reasons why I won ' t let you kiss me. Why He Won ' t Kiss You. Bill Cammack Reader “Jackie” asked me yesterday how come a guy that enjoys spending time with her and seems to.